{"id":53,"date":"2012-08-14T13:42:00","date_gmt":"2012-08-14T17:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jonathanandbecky.net\/fall-2012-newsletter\/"},"modified":"2015-11-14T13:24:25","modified_gmt":"2015-11-14T18:24:25","slug":"fall-2012-newsletter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jonathanandbecky.net\/wp\/fall-2012-newsletter\/","title":{"rendered":"Fall 2012 newsletter"},"content":{"rendered":"<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-nc7nORNHaLo\/UCqbmS-saXI\/AAAAAAAAAVA\/OjBPCuHK94Y\/s1600\/Family-in-front-of-house.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-nc7nORNHaLo\/UCqbmS-saXI\/AAAAAAAAAVA\/OjBPCuHK94Y\/s320\/Family-in-front-of-house.jpg\" width=\"315\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Jonathan &amp; Becky Owen, with Micah and Rachel, will be serving with Brethren in Christ World Missions at EBCoM (Evangelical Bible College of Malawi) in Blantyre, Malawi.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Assume Difference<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">One thing that really stuck with us from our training is that we are to&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">\u201cassume difference\u201d as we enter another culture. Even in everyday ways of doing things, just assume difference until proven otherwise so that we\u2019re not shocked everywhere we turn and wonder why \u201cthey\u201d don\u2019t do anything the \u201cright\u201d way.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;Most people do act rationally \u2014 it just might be a different rationale than we\u2019re aware of, so we will try to suspend judgment until we know more information. A few days before we flew out we had the following conversation at the breakfast table which we thought was a humorous way to display this point:<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Becky<\/b>: &nbsp;Do you know what, Micah? &nbsp;I heard that there is a John Deere tractor&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">dealership in Malawi!*<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Micah<\/b>: &nbsp;Ohhh\u2026.can we go to it?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Becky<\/b>: &nbsp;Well, I don\u2019t know where it is, we\u2019ll have to find out. Where do you think they put their tractors?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Micah<\/b>: &nbsp;In the water.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Becky<\/b>: &nbsp;They put their tractors in the water? Don\u2019t you think they would break?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Micah<\/b>: &nbsp;No.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Jonathan<\/b>: &nbsp;Micah\u2019s got this figured out.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Becky<\/b>: &nbsp;Yep, assume difference!&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">* We learned that the JD dealer is in Lilongwe, so when we get to visit the U.S. Embassy, we\u2019ll try to visit John Deere, too. &nbsp;It is about a 10 hour drive to get there, though. &nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>It\u2019s Just Stuff<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<table cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-x6upFJZ8Z4A\/UCqbtpF0naI\/AAAAAAAAAVI\/w9fyuc7kuXw\/s1600\/Thanks-Beth.jpg\" style=\"clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"261\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-x6upFJZ8Z4A\/UCqbtpF0naI\/AAAAAAAAAVI\/w9fyuc7kuXw\/s320\/Thanks-Beth.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Thanks Beth Huffnagle for traveling with us!<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">In preparation for moving to Malawi, we packed up our bins (similar to a big plastic bin) and suitcases and prayed that it would all arrive with us! When we asked people to pray for our luggage, we got some interesting responses. It\u2019s not the most typical prayer request &#8230; unless you\u2019re a missionary moving overseas! &nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Half of our luggage arrived with us on the plane. A couple days later another quarter&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">arrived, and another couple days later the final cases came. At first, this was disappointing, but as things played out, it became a very good example of the lesson we learned&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">the first day of training in Colorado on paradox. As presented to the kids in an age-<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">appropriate manner, paradox is a pair-of-ducks: \u201cyay\u201d duck and \u201cyuck\u201d duck. These ducks have helped our family process our experiences. Appreciating the good while&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">acknowledging the bad. &nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">At first, the delayed arrival of our luggage was a \u201cyuck\u201d duck, but as we began to settle into our house, it was a relief not to have so much to unpack at once! &nbsp;So, the built in staggered arrival of our stuff was also a \u201cyay\u201d &nbsp;duck! Ultimately, we know that all that&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">we packed is just stuff and that we could live without it, but we praise God that it all&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">arrived, intact! &nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Care Packages<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">FYI \u2013 Care packages are welcome, but just so you know, a padded envelope may arrive in 6 weeks, whereas a box\/package could take up to 9 months or so, so choose items carefully. &nbsp;Once we settle in and get familiar with what is available in Malawi, we\u2019ll post some ideas to our blog for those of you who are asking.&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>New House Cake &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">With each move, we have made a \u201cNew House Cake\u201d to celebrate the new place we live. &nbsp;So, we\u2019ve had a new cake at:<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-r3n9T9Ny60s\/UCqb5YOeWkI\/AAAAAAAAAVQ\/jhURDb1_frY\/s1600\/new-house-cake-3.jpg\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-r3n9T9Ny60s\/UCqb5YOeWkI\/AAAAAAAAAVQ\/jhURDb1_frY\/s320\/new-house-cake-3.jpg\" width=\"317\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; \u2022 The Missionary House in Grantham, PA<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; \u2022 Jonathan\u2019s parents\u2019 house in Colorado<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; \u2022 MTI training at Palmer Lake, CO&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; \u2022 Friend\u2019s house in Dillsburg, PA<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; \u2022 Malawi, Africa!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Our First Days in Malawi<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">At the writing of this newsletter, we have been in Malawi for one week. We are settling into our new house and community. Our dog, Simba, is the best, and both Micah and Rachel very much enjoy her. It is so fun to have a yard to play in the dirt, envision a garden and explore. The gutter systems on the ground are particularly interesting for a 3 year old and his tricycle. And as in any country, every rock, stone wall or couch becomes a \u201ctrain\u201d in Micah\u2019s world. The greatest challenge for our children thus far has been the time zone change. We are six hours ahead of Eastern Time. &nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-H3Gs9ETm6Pk\/UCqb-CfSYXI\/AAAAAAAAAVY\/Lxg_DKKT2c8\/s1600\/new-house-cake-1.jpg\" style=\"clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"191\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-H3Gs9ETm6Pk\/UCqb-CfSYXI\/AAAAAAAAAVY\/Lxg_DKKT2c8\/s320\/new-house-cake-1.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Because school is not in session, the campus of EBCoM is pretty quiet, however we have been able to meet some Malawian neighbors and colleagues in our walking around campus and attending church on campus. We\u2019ve also taken our first food shopping trip in Blantyre and begun to get acclimated to the currency here \u2014 the Kwacha. We look forward to learning more Chichewa as we greet our neighbors as well!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Teaching Schedule<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">The wait is over! &nbsp;Jonathan knows what he\u2019ll be teaching for the first term (although, flexibility is our new middle name). &nbsp;At this time, he is slated to teach two classes:<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;1) Discipleship<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">&nbsp; &nbsp;2) Bible Book Study: &nbsp;Matthew<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">Please pray for him as he adjusts to this new career of teaching. &nbsp;Preparation will take up as much time as he gives it, so also pray for balance with family and community life, not to mention language learning (and sleep)!&nbsp;<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><b>Many thanks to Beth Huffnagle<\/b> for accompanying us as our travel helper. &nbsp;She carried luggage, babysat, washed dishes, mopped floors, fed kids, braved spiders, and took great pictures! &nbsp;We can&#8217;t say thanks enough!<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\">More Photos of our new lives here in Malawi<\/span><\/h3>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-J5s4Cuqf1DY\/UCqckiflQnI\/AAAAAAAAAVg\/Vxb9X9L3y2M\/s1600\/picking-our-first-papaya.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"240\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-J5s4Cuqf1DY\/UCqckiflQnI\/AAAAAAAAAVg\/Vxb9X9L3y2M\/s320\/picking-our-first-papaya.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Picking our first fresh papaya!<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-HryExQmrVhc\/UCqclFnl-hI\/AAAAAAAAAVo\/uCebMYUsr88\/s1600\/playing-in-dirt.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"254\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-HryExQmrVhc\/UCqclFnl-hI\/AAAAAAAAAVo\/uCebMYUsr88\/s320\/playing-in-dirt.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Micah plays in the yard<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-XeaW0ZtxdcE\/UCqclX0rktI\/AAAAAAAAAVw\/uw8n-u0Y_Fs\/s1600\/playing-on-train-2.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-XeaW0ZtxdcE\/UCqclX0rktI\/AAAAAAAAAVw\/uw8n-u0Y_Fs\/s320\/playing-on-train-2.jpg\" width=\"237\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Micah on his &#8220;train&#8221;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-b6Z0l-rhKQ4\/UCqcl6jKsWI\/AAAAAAAAAV4\/Iz9Pls3ejs4\/s1600\/playing-on-train.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"245\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-b6Z0l-rhKQ4\/UCqcl6jKsWI\/AAAAAAAAAV4\/Iz9Pls3ejs4\/s320\/playing-on-train.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Micah&#8217;s train<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><\/p>\n<table align=\"center\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-BQFANCBuNQE\/UCqcmaPenzI\/AAAAAAAAAV8\/52f4KmMkG40\/s1600\/tricylce-in-gutter.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"234\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-BQFANCBuNQE\/UCqcmaPenzI\/AAAAAAAAAV8\/52f4KmMkG40\/s320\/tricylce-in-gutter.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\">Riding the tricycle in the gutter<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jonathan &amp; Becky Owen, with Micah and Rachel, will be serving with Brethren in Christ World Missions at EBCoM (Evangelical Bible College of Malawi) in Blantyre, Malawi. 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